戒尿片

ikndaisy21

我仔仔今年三歲, 開始返學, 佢係返學時我哋都無幫佢著片片, 而佢係屋企亦可同屋企人講要去洗手間, 但最近兩星期, 佢係屋企又開始賴尿, 脾氣又差咗, 例如叫佢刷牙時, 佢會發脾氣。我同先生曾經就佢賴尿而鬧佢, 我們亦曾經以鼓勵方法例如佢一星期不賴尿可有新玩具, 但都無用, 我可以點呢?

pcwong

父母有一個錯覺，孩子一學會的事，就以後會做。假如，孩子走回頭路，父母就會
以為孩子故意，或是孩子無用。

另一個錯覺，就是用責罵、奬品或鼓勵。這方法假設了孩子是能完全控制住自己，只是
明白了道理，就會做到。但事實上，三歲的孩子未能完全控制自己的情緒及生理，
假如我們太過緊張，孩子就會很大壓力，就更不能控制自己。

我的建議：
１。冷靜：賴了尿的孩子已經不開心，父母再駡，孩子自然會緊張或發脾氣。
　　父母可輕鬆的說，尿尿走了出來。換褲好了。父母可問他有沒有不舒服，
　　也可問他賴尿前有沒有尿意。
２。提示：有些孩子以為很急才去尿尿，但大了一點，愛玩，就顧不得尿尿。
　　父母可定時提醒他尿尿。假如父母知道他大約多少時間就要尿尿，就更好。

總而言之，我們要解決的是幫助孩子掌握甚麼時間及情況要尿尿，千萬不要升級
為孩子不聽話或親子衝突的問題。

我們的「幼兒成長課程」，重點正是讓家長了解幼兒不是大人，有些事我們
家長真的要接受他未能掌握，要耐性等他們成長。

jackieee

You can just do what you used to do when your kid was not fully toilet-trained.  If there is no sudden change in your family (such as arrival or new baby, moving to a new home, going to a new school,etc), you just have to remind him patiently that he needs to ask to go to the toilet instead of weeing in his pants with a gentle but firm tone.  Reverting to old pattern is not unusual and many kids experience this when they are still 3  or 4, esp. when they have some sudden changes in their family.  However, all you have to do is to understand that this is normal and persevere in reminding him gently everytime this happens when helping him change, and remind him every 45  mins to 1 hour after having a big drink.  But don't push too hard.  If he says there is no wee wee, let him go and play.  He might still wee in his pants after being reminded periodically, but just don't lose your temper.  In time, this will improve and he'll revert back to normal.  The more patient and gentle you are, the more quickly your son will turn back to normal.  This is my experience.